Chyle, never in my day have I seen so many messy grown men out here in these streets/social media platforms! And no, I’m not referring to men who choose to live an alternative lifestyle (though they can be messy too). I’m referring to these men who are bitter, gossiping, lying and have more sass than a 10-year-old girl! Baby who hurt y’all?!

There are so many misogynists with either a podcast or some platforms haggling women and degrading them. They typically target women they can dominate when they call themselves interviewing them. These are the women who typically have Only Fan accounts or consider themselves to be Modern Women. Their sole purpose is to make women as a whole to appear as having no morals, only wanting men who make 6 figures or more, and sounding uneducated.

These are the type of men who follow the red pill movement and that guy they thought was their savior who is now deceased (trying to put this respectfully). And so, because of these demographic of women that volunteer to be on these shows, it has plenty of these one track mind sassy men thinking their worth is more than what it really is!

How can I say this?! Does this make me a feminist?! Am I hurt?! The answer to all of this is no and I call it how I see it! There are plenty of good men that are being misled through these half truths. My question would be, if men know that this doesn’t pertain to all women, then why view women as a whole like this?! “Well I don’t know who to trust,” (typical answer) and that’s cool but perhaps you need to take a step back and heal before attempting to involve yourself with another woman.

Another way I view this as some men being this way towards women is because the women that do think like this are typically the ones they’re attracted to but now feel discouraged because they know they can’t match their standards. This doesn’t make the women in question necessarily right but it’s what they want and you can’t get upset because you’re not what they prefer!

There’s a lot of you men who can’t handle rejection and it clearly shows by your actions. Some of you go as far as physically harming women and that’s never cool! Heal, move on, work on yourself and perhaps then you can meet someone who is more suitable for you. And for you men who love to ask what a woman can bring to the table but then proceed to say that you can get sex from anywhere, you can cook and clean and pay your own bills, do you really want a woman? I’m asking because it sounds like you’re wanting something that doesn’t exist. It’s giving, I only want friends with benefits and that’s not fair to women who are seeking more than just playing house.

That’s great you could can do these things for basic survival skills and you should know how to do these things. But please know women are not here to be your servants. They are here to be help meets, companions, nurturing, loving, and supporting. Financial needs vary depending upon what y’all agree to but please know that no one is going to have this perfect answer to please some of y’all! And if you’re a man who is financially capable of providing for your woman comfortably, please stop trying to control these women just because you can afford to do it all! There’s nothing worse than a man who is controlling, demanding, and more than likely, a cheater! Because men like that typically have power and have the mindset of “if I’m taking care of you, don’t worry about what I’m doing and when I’ll be home.” (Please let me know if I’m wrong) They know most women want a man to provide and some are willing to tolerate anything just as long as he is taking care of home.

Life is all about choices and you can’t force a personality on someone that’s physically your type. Just like you want to be accepted for who you are, likewise for women. I’m not saying settle, I’m saying adjust your perspective.

Thank you for reading 🙂

Meh, I said what I said.